Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Harsh upon my own sex

I am about as sexist a woman as any can find. I am angered by the man haters out there who think that women should bne out in the work force just as much as men. I hate that I have to work outside the home to help bring in money for our childless family to stay afloat.

I will not say that all woman should be stuck home bare foot an pregnant in the kitchen making pie all day. I do believe that there are women out there who do well in the professional positions. It is the women who are so emotionally charged and completely illogical who really grind my wheat. I firmly beleive that this nation was better off befor women were allowed run for office and to some extent to vote too. A strong opinion yes, but no stronger than the views of my man oppressing female counterparts. There are so many feminists out there who say they want equal rights to men, but what they seem to really want is more rights than men. These are bitter women, hurt or neglected by their father or some other important man in their life. They want revenge. These are spiteful women, angry at the world for their percieved ill treatment.

I am one example of women who want to stay home, care for my husband and children.I want my husband to be the leader of my home, to help disciplin our children. I want to be my husbands help mate, to be submissiveto him, not a slave or subordinate. They say that "behind every great man is a great woman." Well, I want to be that woman.I don't need to vote, I do but I don't need to. I vote for whom ever my husband voted for. He is a good man, honest, and Godly. He dotes on me, loves me, respects me, prays with me, values my opinion and how I feel, and he appreciates me. he has his faults and I acknowledge them; but I have my faults too, and they are no less than his. Each of us has our own goals and dreams, many of them coincide with eachother, but they do not run in two different directions. We both have great tallents and abilities, and we do our best to use them for God's glory.

I do believe in God and the Bible. I take bothe seriously and litterally. I would not consider myself a Bible thumper or even very conservative. I believe what I believe and that makes me who I am. I do not think it is right to force others to live the same sort of life I chose to lead, though I do believe that the God of the Bible is the one true God and the only Way. I make no appologies for it, just as those who oppose me make no appologies for their beliefs. or faith or lack thereof.

I don't wish to be typical or normal in the eyes of the world. I already feel alien here. I want to be a Godly woman, a Proiverbs woman. I want to be different, becausse normal is disfunctional.
Normal women are bitchy, illogicl, unforgiving, overly emotional, bitter, insecure, indicisive, contentious, and poor communicaters. They take everything personally, react to emotions, and emasculate any man they can for their own insecuries. I know I am a rare woman, but I know there are more out there like me, I have met a few.

These are the womans rights I want to fight for: to take care of my husband, home, and children.
I want to educate my children myself, with my husband. I want to have babies at home or in a birthing center. Naturally, with the help of a midwife as they did once upon a time. I want to breastfeed until my child weans themself, the way it once was. I want to use cloth diapers. I want to disciplin and care for my chuildren the way I see fit, to teach them self control and responsibility. I want to rumn my home, not have my children do it, or have the government or psychologists tell me what is best.

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